(almost) irreversibly traumatized
Ed,The scenario you describe comes very close to where I was several years ago so I'll try to tell you some of the mistakes I made.My wife had no sailing or boating experience (a friend had recently let us barefoot on his tyanna 37 for a weekend) and my kids were 2 and 4 yrs old. The "bug" hit me and I bought a San Juan 21, very similar to a 212. On our maiden voyage, all of us jumped on and with the wind at our backs we sailed out of the small cove. As we hit the main lake we were hit with the full force of the wind, probably 18-20 knots. I didn't realize it at the time but the centerboard was only about 1/3 of the way down.We went so far over that water was pouring into the cockpit. Anyway you get the picture kids screaming, sails flapping violently, wife paralized with fear. I finally got the sails down after breaking a batten and started the outboard, (for the second time in my life). We made it about 200 yards back to the dock and the engine cut off. Started again and the same thing happenned after 200 yards, it cut off. Did this about 15 times until I realized I needed to open the fuel vent.My wife never set foot on the San Juan 21 again, luckally She had had a very good experience on the Tyanna 37 and we soon tried again with a Watkins 27, Which I spent several weekends learning on BEFORE the family came aboard.Ed I'm getting really long winded here so I'll try to wrap this up. Yes, the 212 will be a great boat for your family IF you know what your doing when you take them out for the first time. Learn the boat and it's systems, and pick idylic afternoons to introduce the family. It took a long time before my family "trusted" me as captain again but it did happen. My now 12 year old daughter is pretty good at docking our Hunter 34 and she and I are thinking about entering the Spring race series along with her little brother. My wife still gives me a kind of dirty look if I'm slow in suggesting we reef the boat, but the whole experience of sailing has given all of us something else in common and made us a team.