Ross, it sounds like the cleat may have been trying to sustain the bulk of the entire load. I am sure that you had sustained winds from a constant direction, which leads to one connection point, or maybe just 2 that bear most of the load even though many ropes may have been used to tie off the boat.
When I tied Thunderbird down, I was most worried about the cleats and rings on the wooden dock. I figured that even if the fittings didn't give, the planks were liable to pull loose from the stringers. I spent some time on my own last spring reinforcing the dock with fasteners, because I knew the County wasn't going to focus on this issue. Nobody bothered me while I did my reinforcing work ... I often believe it is more expedient to beg forgiveness rather than ask permission.
I like my location, though because I am partially protected by a concrete structure and there are tie-off posts which are concrete-filled pipes set in the concrete pier. I had at least 3 ropes attached to those. Even so, I studied the wind patterns on Monday evening and adjusted lines so that it appeared that lines were taking a distributed load in the gusts.
This is the only storm where in the 8 seasons I have had the boat here that I had this kind of concern beforehand ... and it was justified. Last year, during Irene, I wasn't nearly as concerned and didn't need to be so much. Even so, we don't get the sustained winds. They come in gusts and from variable directions. But even during the worst of the storm, there were periods when the boat is resting without any strain on the lines, due to the protection of the hills and trees.