The answer to the problem!!!!!
Well,it goes to show that if you talk to people you get answers.Let me preface this by saying,I travel all the time for my job and rarely am home so catching my fellow owners is difficult.That being said the answer to my problem has been the pumpout station!
What I found out is that everyone who uses it has to open the valve before they turn it on,then put a water hose in the hose and fill it with water,then close the valve and turn it on,put the pumpout hose over the deckfill,then open the valve to suck.They say that this is how they prime it and it doesnt work unless they do.Now they tell me!!!!
So everything I went through was for naught.Thanks to everyone for their help.I know more than I ever wanted to know about a pumpout.