redfishnc is right
everything becomes peaceful and easy at very slow speeds. Learn how far your boat will coast in different wind speeds and directions. Currents also play a major role but some Marina's like mine doesn't have much of a current if at all.I'll tell you a story which should help you understand how much speed affects all this. One weekend I was starting out on a long trip and two hours into the trip I busted my quadrant. I had to use the emergency steering the whole way back and if you haven't tried that, it's a real pain. I found out the hard way that you can't backup with it, which is how I normally dock. So, I went in bow first on the second attempt but I didn't have the ability to change the fenders due to being single handed and using the emergency tiller. I came in real slow, almost perfect speed. The hull never touched anything as I hopped off and tied her off and I only have a foot clearence on each side in my tight slip.I see people coming down the fareway doing 5 knots. I can't wait for the one day that they have a mechanical failure and they take out the dock going 5 knots.NOW...important note...if you find yourself docking in winds over 15 knots, be very careful. You can still go in a slow speeds but remember that the wind will effect the course and when the boat stops, that bow is going to spin in the direction of the wind pretty quickly so be ready to grab the bow line when docking in high winds or use a good spring line.How does a spring line work? It's simple but doesn't work on every dock (doesn't work on short finger docks). As you come into the slip slowly but still in gear, hope off the boat onto the finger with a line attached to the midship cleat. Wrap the line around the finger cleat nearest the fareway and pull the line tight. As the boat continues forward, it will slow down and pull itself up against the finger. Once stopped, let the line out until you have the boat in the right position, then cleat it. Now cleat your bow and then replace the spring line on the finger cleat with the stern line. Turn off engine.Of course this also works going in stern first but a little different. There is also a way to do it without hopping onto the dock but that get complicated and I find it easier to just hop onto the dock because I sometimes miss the cleat when trying to throw a loop over it on the finger.Once you learn the coasting, speed, wind affects, and how to use a spring line, you will find docking is very easy. Don't forget though, the lessions you learn about wind speed and direction should also be applied when leaving the dock. So many times I see boaters running into neighbor boats when leaving because they don't pay attention to the wind before departing.