If you are using the washers, you still need to have a beveled countersink under the washer. This forms a plug of sealant that stays tight against the bolt. You mentioned that Caliber had recessed the bolts. Is this the type of recess you meant, or a flat recess?One other thing, these bolts are made to use with a washer. If we used them how would we countersink them with a washer? I did try to research that because we actually prefer using them because they are larger but I couldn't find how to countersink with a washer.
Also, as mentioned, you must tighten the nuts on the inside, and hold the bolt so that it doesn't turn once it is inserted through the hole.