You've almost got it, Joseph...and Stu...
If you tee the head intake into the sink drain line, you eliminate the head intake thru-hull altogether. To use sea water to flush the toilet, keep a plug in the sink. To flush out the toilet intake line, pump, channel in the rim of the bowl AND the discharge line, close the sink drain thru-hull, fill the sink with fresh water from te faucet. Because the drain seacock is closed, the toilet will pull the water from the sink...rinsing the sea water out of the whole system. Stu, I dunno how many times I need to post that keeping the seacock closed and using a cup or shower head to supply flush water diretly to the bowl all the time is a very bad idea...'cuz bowl contents--including water added to 'em--only go through the bottom of the pump, leaving the upper part of the pump dry. That's not good for the rubber parts in the pump...they dry out, which causes 'em to wear out a lot faster. It's an even worse idea if you have the typical electric macerating toilet that has an integral intake pump which pulls in flush water at the same time the toilet pushes bowl contents out...'cuz if you close the seacock, the intake impeller has to run dry, which fries it very quickly and then destroys the intake pump housing. If you want to use fresh water to flush a sea water toilet all the time, there are only two safe ways to do it...connect the intake to the sink drain or install a separate water tank to supply the flush water.