My money is on a blocked tank vent
A blocked vent pressurizes the tank, creating backpressure that makes the toilet harder and harder to pump and also to "burp" or backflow into the bowl, 'cuz it has nowhere else to go.So unless you're willing to risk taking a bath in waste, don't remove any hose connections until after you've opened the deck pumpout fitting to relieve any pressure in the tank. Then check for a blockage in the vent through-hull and in the vent fitting on the tank. Scrape out what you find. And in the future, make sure the vent doesn't become blocked again by backflushing it every time you wash the boat and or pumpout.If it's been more than two years since the joker valve was replaced, replace it. If the toilet hasn't been rebuilt in at least 5 years, put a rebuild kit--which includes a joker valve, btw--in it. Joker valves should be replaced every two years, toilets should be rebuilt every 5 years. Steve, I suggest you check your own tank vent...'cuz just overfilling the tank should not cause a backup. The waste should overflow out the vent instead. Both of you might want to check out the link below to learn how to maintain your sanitation system so that you prevent problems..prevention is a lot easier than curing 'em.