Reefing
As a friend of mine has said, it is too late while reefing in gusty winds. You must be prepared and reef early.I find without a furling jib, you will need to drop the jib in 12-13 knots of wind. At 15-17 knots of wind, reef the main. If it is still to much, you need to drop sail and come in as sailing should be fun. if you have roller furling jib, then reef with it first. Once the jib is rolled up all the way, then reef the main. If you go over 10 degree heel, then you are loosing performance. You sail faster with less heel due to the hull shape. One who knows from experience