First, it is the parents obligation to pass on wisdom. Random older people can share their wisdom if it is welcome, it isn't an obligation on either side(to give or receive) although I do accept and enjoy advice from my elders.Isn't it an obligation of an older generation to pass on some wisdom to younger generations? Sure, some of the commentary and advise might seem a little harsh. Degeneration within a society is a real danger. Older generations gain wisdom and it is necessary to pass it along. I was 20 at one time and probably said the same things that you imply. Generosity is a virtue, freeloading is not. Evolution happens, we all know that. Evolution isn't necessarily all progress.
Second, I'm 43, not 20. And I'm raising 2 sons, trying to make them the best people they can be. As self sufficient as possible, but not afraid to ask for help, or give it when needed.
Third, generosity is a virtue, true. But you are judging people as freeloaders based on one Web page. You have no idea if they have donated to others before and how much. I help people when I can, and accept help when I need. And I'm not as
Hey Scott,Isn't it an obligation of an older generation to pass on some wisdom to younger generations? Sure, some of the commentary and advise might seem a little harsh. Degeneration within a society is a real danger. Older generations gain wisdom and it is necessary to pass it along. I was 20 at one time and probably said the same things that you imply. Generosity is a virtue, freeloading is not. Evolution happens, we all know that. Evolution isn't necessarily all progress.
First point is that it is the obligation of parents to pass on wisdom to their children. Other elders may, and should offer their wisdom, if it is welcomed. Elders should be respected, but so should the younger generation.
Second, I'm 43 not 20. I'm also raising 2 teenage boys to be as self sufficient as possible, but to offer and accept help when needed.
Third, you are calling someone a freeloader based on one Web page in one moment in time. You have no idea if they have helped others or how much. If I donate to the food bank when I have the ability, but later need a free meal, am I free loading?
And I agree evolution isn't necessarily progress. but just because it isn't progress in your or my mind doesn't mean it isn't for the next generation. Go fund me is part of the world we now live in. If you don't want to donate, don't! If others do, how does it hurt or even affect you.
If all parties involved(asking or giving) are happy with the interaction, who does it hurt?