hey Fred
I got a kick out of your tale. My take on it is you were and are on the happy side to have caught and passed him. Now, my two cents worth.Having a full set of sails up in 30 knot winds on a 37'er (I have a 37' Irwin...about the same weight/waterline) might actually slow you down because of the degree of heal. You sail faster standing up. Second is the assumption the sailors on the other boat had everything trimmed right, including rudder and sails. Since you caught them, I assume you DID have yours set right. But maybe he didn't. This past summer a friend was at the helm and said "Why aren't we going anywhere in this wind (about 15 knots)? I looked up..and the sails were OK. I looked down, and the rudder was completely over, and acting as a brake. I walked over to the helm, straightened it, and it was like we were shot out of a cannon. So not all sailors are competent.In 30 knots only longer waterline boats or, a combination shorter waterline length/less weight could pass me, let alone catch me. I once had a Scampi try and he just smiled. My size ship compared to his made it look like we were a barge going nowhere. When we got in, he said he tried to catch us, and I said "I know". I wasn't bragging or anything but most of the guys in the 30' class pass me all the time in maybe 10 knots or less of wind, so they assume it is a barge...and it is, sort of. But once she gets going, in the right water height, she holds her own.