When I bought my 2009 H36 in 2018 it had a Fortress FX-23 on the bow from the PO. I did a lot of anchoring in the middle Chesapeake Bay and it typically held pretty well under normal conditions. However, it drug very badly during a thunderstorm with 50 knot gusts that whipsawed the boat (so not totally the anchor's fault). Also, when I attempted to anchor in the Little Choptank after dark one night it took me 9 tries in 3 different spots before I got it to dig in. I'm guessing the bottom there is different than the muddy bottom of the other parts of the middle bay I'd been anchoring in and the Fortress didn't like that. BTW the Fortress anchor hung off the bow roller just fine without modification.
After that I relegated the FX-23 to be a backup anchor. Its very light, can be disassembled and carried in a dinghy and deployed easily. I keep that and backup rode stored inside the boat and out of the anchor locker. I replaced the FX-23 with a 35 lb galvanized Lewmar Delta I bought used at Bacon Sails in Annapolis. I also put 50 feet of chain on there instead of 25, and added a FinDelta riding sail (to greatly reduce the sailing at anchor). That solved my problems and over the next 3 years I never drug an anchor again before I sold the boat. I also think the FinDelta makes a HUGE difference, as it keeps the boat from actively trying to rip the anchor out as the boat swings back and forth. It doesn't completely do away with sailing at anchor, but for us it reduced it by probably 70%. I loaned it to a friend who was headed to the Caribbean in an H41DS and instead of mailing the sail back at the end of his season he sent me a check. Pretty good endorsement.
I'll be surprised if there's not a vigorous debate on the "right" or "best" anchor. I present my experience above as anecdotal and not an endorsement for the Delta style of anchor as the "best", but it worked well for me with 50 feet of chain and careful anchoring technique the entire length of the Chesapeake Bay. I do think your Delta is a little light for that boat at 22 lbs. I wouldn't go with anything below the 35 lb option, and without a riding sail maybe even go one more size up.