Nelsonhow,
I think I know wherebu r at. A couple of years ago I was using mainsail's buff magic post to restore my gelcoat. I remember a couple of questions that it did not seem to answer. They may or not be the ones you have. But here r my solutions anyway.
1. To sand I found it best to start with 600. I worked up to 2000 before buffing. Buffing several times will not make up for sanding. To sand, I began with circular motions. I used the amount of pressure I would use for a massage. Start hard and ease up. I would finish with light back and forth motion as if I were dusting. The mistake I always made was UNDER sanding. Change paper a lot. The finer the grit,, the more time you spend in an area. I did not find it to be difficult or unrewarding. Very relaxing work once you get the hang of it. Of course my boat was on a trailer in my back yard.
2. With the buffer, light pressure. The lighter the better. Don't use the edge of the pad for small areas. Keep the pad slightly tilted. But only slightly.
Those r the only things I have to ad to mainsails excellent article
Keith
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