Who when cruising would say they got to port too fast?
Funny you should mention this. I can't count the number of times I arrived at an unlit pass through a coral reef or into a harbor somewhere in the third world before dawn and had to heave-to for some hours, awaiting daylight.
Even when I had the capability for speeds over 10 knots, I would rarely allow the vessel to do that, unless I was willing to hand steer.
No way I'm letting a mindless machine steer a sailboat at over 10 knots.
I was a racer before I was a cruiser and it took me a couple of tries to end up on a suitable "cruising" boat. First try was a 49' Phill Rhodes TransPac ocean racer, a pretty ludicrous cruising boat, with 23 bags of sails, including 3 chutes.
Just because one can race a boat around the marks doesn't mean they are a better sailor than a cruiser. It just may mean that the cruiser might prefer to get a bit of sleep, cook a nice meal, or just lounge around, boat drink in hand, rather than spend every waking second trimming and adjusting his gear.