Calder, and I believe Don Casey, state, as I recall from memory, that when making AC electricity on board that the boat's neutral and ground wires should be tied together on the AC source (inverter or generator). Your Honda probably has the neutral grounded to the generator case and the output ac receptacles probably has a green, black, and white wire behind it. I believe if you have an isolator on board you would then want the generator case, engine, AC ground bus and DC ground bus all tied together. When hooked up to shore-side AC, you don't want the neutral and ground wires tied together on the boat. Before following this advice, you might want to listen to the experts on this forum.
3 or 4 years ago, I installed an older Onan 7.5kw genset on my boat. The AC output leads were isolated from the genset casing and when I hooked up the house AC circuit to the genset, the reverse-polarity lights went on. Concerned, I posted on a forum seeking advice. I didn't get one response :-(.
Since I have a couple of degrees in electrical engineering (which really means I know just enough to kill me) I decided to tie one side of the onan's AC output to case ground on the genset, making that lead the neutral. The remaining lead became the hot lead. I then wired the hot and neutral leads into my home-made transfer switch which consists of three 3p2t, 90 amp relays. When the relays are energized, the shore receptacle on the boat is isolated and the house hot, neutral and ground leads are connected to the onan, causing the house neutral and ground wires to connect to the onan case. It seems to have worked these past years. I haven't electrocuted my self while crawling through my engine room when the genset is running and connected to the house. I don't get any shocks from my appliances; and, my reverse-polarity tester doesn't light up like a Christmas tree when I plug it into any of my AC wall receptacles. If anyone thinks I am in danger, I'm not too proud to listen to advice.