A few thoughts:
#1 Your friends seal was installed incorrectly for a sailboat. Despite what PYI says, and I have had this discussion with Fred H., some boats are more prone to collecting air in the shaft log throughout the season and may need multiple burpings per year. Our Catalina 36 was notorious for entrapping air in the shaft log and required multiple burpings per season. Short quick blasts from reverse or crash stops can force air up into the log where it can't escape if there is no vent or way out. With the engine shut off this is likely the case, he trapped air and with the engien off lacked water lubrication..
#2 On sailboats the vent is there to evacuate any entrapped air and allow the water to reach the seal and keep it lubricated. Without the vent you may need multiple burpings per year on some boats. Some boats never need more than one burp but all boats are not the same and some trap more air up the log than others.
#3 Many boats with PSS vents suffer from expelling water out the vent tube. It is a matter of the height of the vent tube, your prop, how hard you back down and the gap around the shaft in the shaft log. I have one customer who never new this was happening until his engien got badly rusted. Every time he opened it the engine was dry but it began rusting badly. The engine heat baked off the moisture but left behind the salt. There are a number of ways to deal with this and I've used two that both work well. The bike water bottle and a hydronic heating system air vent both prevent the water from being blasted out of the tube.
#5 Running ANY type of packing gland dry, drip free or unvented CAN result in the seal not getting enough lubrication and you can overheat both a PSS type or standard traditional
packing. Letting a traditional box drip some keeps the air out and also brings fresh oxygenated water to the shaft which helps minimize shaft corrosion up in the log. The vent on the PSS does the same..
Both systems work but installation errors are bad with both systems. Sadly your friend got a poor installation...