You are not alone
Many new boaters, or non boaters, thinks docking is like parking a car. Well, for us boaters, we have to add wind, current, and steering in the back. Even many of us seasoned boaters still run into the dock sometimes. ouch!Too many people come in to the dock way too hot. They should be slowing down to a crawl. And since we are all sailors here, we know sailboats are much heavier then a power boat. With all that weight, it takes a while to slow down, and difficult to stop on a dime.When close to the dock, I think the best dock line to use first is the midship dockline. It will pull the side of the boat towards the dock, and once cleated, the short scope will act as a spring line. If you use the bow line, then the stern will swing out, and if you use the stern line, the bow will swing out. Also if you toss the bow line to someone on the dock, and they pull on it, they will often end up increasing the forward speed of the boat, or the stern will swing out and hit the neighbor's boat. If you toss them the midship line, they are only going to pull the middle of the boat towards the middle cleat on the dock.Have fun boating, and it will take time to learn the docking part.