Did not want to hijack another thread but I was reminded of an incident years ago. I thought this may help someone. I was pulling alongside a transient dock, on a parallel aproach, bleeding off speed when the dockhand requested a line from my mate at the bow and my mate obliged assuming it was proper. The dockhand proceeded to to pull my bow over and attach the line to a cleat. I had to shift the boat to reverse and gun it to minimize the impending collision with dock. The guy indicated that was the spot where he wanted me to stop and I gave him a piece of my mind about there being space for 4 boats ahead and the we could have walked the boat back and that he had no right to take away the steering of the vessel from me. Ever since, I have advised my mates to look at me for the OK to release lines to dockhands. Experienced dockhands know what you are doing and respect you for it. It is best to hand the lines over after coming to a dead stop. Sometimes wind and current require for you to relinquish steering to dockhands but let it be your choice and not theirs.