That was before prehistoric time existed.Was that a prehistoric time?![]()
We both know that's a bunch of bull...What can I say? I don't like seeing proof that I can't sail.
No, not sympathy and I'm not saying I'm not a good sailor. I just don't want to have to deal with evidence to the contrary. It's fear-based behavior. I can tell myself I'm an awesome sailor, but if I test it, there's the possibility of discovering that I'm wrong. For those of us who are emotionally precarious...We both know that's a bunch of bull...
I don't know though, maybe you are looking for sympathy? As my mother would tell us as kids, "What?!? Are you looking for sympathy? You'll find it right in the dictionary right between shit and syphilis!"
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I do hope you realize I was playing with you - plus I'm always looking for good excuses to quote my mother's favorite saying from growing up...No, not sympathy and I'm not saying I'm not a good sailor. I just don't want to have to deal with evidence to the contrary. It's fear-based behavior. I can tell myself I'm an awesome sailor, but if I test it, there's the possibility of discovering that I'm wrong. For those of us who are emotionally precarious...
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I'm not into the competitive culture and I don't need the validation. However, one-on-one or in a spontaneous moment of cameradery, I'd be happy to race. Racing does push one to improve.
-Will (Dragonfly)
Would love to do a trip from our home port in Port Huron to Put In Bay who knows maybe this summerDon't kid yourself. Go to any after club cruise get together (Well at least not for another 3 months) and you will hear a lot of conversations on how well one's boat performed against such and such. Really, in my area there a lot of cruisers and dock queens. Most of them can be seen motor sailing the 16 miles over to put in bay when the wind is less than 15 knots. We usually come up on them from behind marveling at how they are outpointing us in less than 8 knots of wind until we notice their mains luffing and the steam coming out of their transoms. Racing is solving a dynamic complicated problem coupled with crew organization and training, logistics, navigation skills, weather forecasting, conditions observation, boat handling, rules knowledge, how to budget money judiciously, and luck. If you want to race without doing all the above luck is your best hope.
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