Sorry to disgree with you cotter pin installation roger

but having worked in aviation my whole life we use the following per AC 43.13-1B 9/8/98
Well, I didn’t work in aviation my whole life but I was a private pilot and Maintenance Officer both of a flying club and in the Civil Air Patrol. I wasn’t an AP (aviation mechanic) so I didn’t install any cotter pins but, if I had, I would have done exactly as you quote. Why? Because the FAA says so.
Not everything the FAA tells you to do on an aircraft makes perfect sense but I have no quibble with their cotter pin standards. Why would I do it differently on an aircraft than on a boat? The cotter pins in aircraft are not subject to the corrosive effects of salt water so the changes in the metal due to the sharp bend are not very significant. On an aircraft, you do not, (or sure better hope you do not) have things like lines flailing around that can snag the ends of the cotters.
The part about the using the largest cotter that will fit the hole is correct for both plans and boats. That’s why the pins need to be cut short and filed smooth on a boat. Standard pins are simply too long. The only part of the cotter that is effective in keeping the cotter from backing out is the part just past where the bends make it larger than the hole. Anything much longer than required to create the bend just increase the chances of a snag and the leverage of the snagging line or object on the cotter legs.
If you try to drive one of these short cotters out, you will see that they are quite secure. Even driven into the hole, the spring in the ends will hold them hard enough that they will be tough to pull the rest of the way by the head. Pinching the legs back together still leaves them hard to remove.