The Shelco will extrude less deformable particles due to it large physical size (2.5" dia X 10" length). The reason for the previous statement is based on the relatively low fluid velocity through the 2.5"Ø X 10".
I dont remember which Shelco filter cartridge you are using but if its one of their 'graded pore density' (melt blown polypropylene microfiber) then yes, it will have significant dirt holding capacity ... my usual experience is almost 125 grams until plugging.
That sediment in the recirc. bowl bottom is probably a 'coalescence' of the gels and soft/deformable particles you find in such tankage systems. They are probably being retained on the surface, then settling by gravity to the sump of the bowl when the system shuts down - a two-phase, liquid-liquid separation in 'filter-speak'. Everytime these 'softies' gets 'squeezed' through the filter media they (can) come together with 1 + 1 = 2 and thus doubles in size .... and so on until ultimately the ever larger physical size gets retained in the filter media --- that the beauty of a recirculation system - it removes vastly smaller particles than the installed filter rated retention, its much cheaper to operate.
I typically need to change the recirc. filter at every 500-700 gallons, even when assaying the fuel to be 'crystal clear' before taking it onboard. Thats using a 10µM (99%) tapered pore geometry filter.
BTW - I recently fiberglass lined / epoxy coated the internals of my old 100 gallon black iron tank (black iron tanks rot from underneath) . Ive been polishing this tank for the past 7 years without any 'maintenance' other than to empty it during the winter. When I opened it .... looked like the day I finished scrubbing it 7 years ago. This tank was recirc-polished every time I had the engine running (at 3 GPM). My Racor system never saw 'any' challenge, no gage pressure changes, no sediment accumulation, etc. during that whole time ... and I get my Racors for free.
Im glad you seem satisfied with your system.
best regards
RichH