This morning I got a call from Stephen Lance who owns Defender.com. Seem TSBB2 was right and the guy is serious about the company's reputation.
There was an apology as their call centre software does not provide their staff the same level of prompting for Canadian orders as it does for US orders. This resulted in my order getting parked when I should have been given the option of having the in-stock items immediately.
Also website functions are limited for Canadians but again this is due to limitations in the software itself which they are trying to work around.
On the question of why my order was cancelled... on the audio review by the ref (they do record those calls)... the ruling is that my answer to the question "Do you want your order cancelled?" with a reply of "No, but I do want to cancel this call" wrongly resulted in the order being cancelled. Yes, yes,,,Phil, ME Sail,Old Skool.. my manners could have been better. Will be next time.
Of course I felt very good about getting called because every person wants to me listened to and every customer wants to feel valued.
It was also nice to get the call because up to the day that order was cancelled all the Defender.com experiences were very good.
Bottom line....
I will deal with Defender.com again but will drive to my Personal Mail Box in the USA for future orders
I will provide a list of all suggested URLs
http://www.marineoutfitters.ca/index.cfm?page=home
http://www.thechandleryonline.com
http://www.riggingshoppe.com/index.htm
http://www.boaterbits.ca/
West Marine
Binnacle
http://www.foghmarine.com
Pride Marine - boating electronics accessories supplies hardware sailboat power - Ontario Canada
Stright-MacKay Marine Equipment
http://www.marineengine.com/
I will use Cdn on-line supplier when prices match up.
I will watch my phone manners
Thanks to all for the suggestions and conversation
Dino K