I'm sorry that I didn't see this when it was posted. On the other hand, we have recently had a sail which left me reasonably impressed with our Oceanis 34. If you are still considering it, I absolutely would recommend it (or
@Davidasailor26 's Oceanis 37). When we ordered our 34, it was two steps up in size for us, and we have never regretted a jump of six feet over our previous boat.
My wife and I didn't learn to sail until we were in our 50s, and learned in the South Puget Sound where winds can be a bit light in the summer. I don't mind telling people that we tend to be fair weather sailors. Over the last several years we have moved farther north on the sound, and now have quite a stretch of decent water and wind to sail. Last week, we sailed from Kingston to Port Ludlow for the weekend. We had expected NNW winds at about 8 kts, what we got was straight out of the north at a steady 14 - 15 kts against an ebb current which gave us some interesting seas in a couple of spots. Once we got over the shock of having double the wind speed that we had expected... we reefed both the main and the jib, and eased the traveller all the way out. What we had was an absolutely great sail for about four hours. With the traveler eased, the boat was not overly healed, and I thought it was absolutely rock solid and very comfortable. I was trying to sail to my destination and was able to sail for decent periods of time both close hauled and on a bit of a reach. I hesitate to brag about our sailing performance, because I think of myself as no more than an intermediate sailor (I've been a ski instructor in Montana for 15 years so I think I can recognize "expert", and I'm not it in sailing), but after a bit of time to get make adjustments and think through many of the sail trim pointers and concepts that I've read on this forum we found ourselves hitting as much as 6.5 kts speed through the water.
Here is a
Cruising World review that I found, written by people with more sailing experience credibility than I have.