Just a short story about wind and waves...
A year or so ago, while traveling down the coast of the North West, we heard another sailor on the radio claiming 40 to 50 knots of wind and 20 to 30 foot seas and was calling the Coast Guard as he was about to give up the ship.
When he gave his position, I was surprised as he was only a couple miles off our stern, in the same conditions as we were. And yes it was rough but the winds were more like 25 to 30 and the waves were 10 to 12 feet and breaking at the top. But it was managable by reefing and keeping your boat in the proper line, and because it came upon us slowly, we were able to adjust to the conditions..
The reason I bring this up is, that many people streach the truth a little and its easy to do. Because someone has said they sail in 25 to 30 knots of wind and they're comfortable with it, dosent mean its so. Be careful and dont push that boat more than you feel comfortable to do so..
By the way, we live on our boat, are presently cruising, and our comfort level is around 15 to 20 knots, above that, we start being a little more cautious about wats going on around us..
And our boat, is a FIRST 42 by Beneteau