When my dad was sailing the bahama's and the Cay's
with his 45 Columbia, there was a Catalina 22 cruising with them. They sailed into a destination and an hour later the Catalina 22 showed up. The Catalina people knew how to use their boat.If you know your boat and you can manage it in harsh conditions, you will be able to sail in conditions that "press-on no matter what sailors" beat themselves to death. Sailing with the wisdom of what you and your boat can withstand will make a sailor find the tender areas. More often than not, it is the sailor that gives up due to conditions than it is boats falling apart.If you are driving your car on a rocky road, are you going to slam it into every rock, or are you going to drive with skill around the problems. The problem with steering that is that intense is the drivers ability. What can you take and stake your life on? People like the Pardy's have learned that at some point, you fold things up and ride it out. How you do that is anothr question which has been discussed here recently.Small boats, read about some of the Atlantic crossings in boat's 8' long.Yes, kind of like challenging the Falls but doable.What are you comfortable with?There is always the ICW if weather is bad. 45 footers chose this when the weather is in the wrong direction, but, they keep going!r.w.landau