Easier said than done. One will need a pin extractor to remove and seat pins 3-7 (actually it is a 7 pin connector, my error). If the OP has an extractor and none of the pins break during extraction, then all is good. Else, he will need a new cable.
As for the +12/-12 volts, then yes, one would assume the -12 is ground while in a boat. However, if one is using just a battery, there is no ground so to speak. It is the +12v (or positive) pole and the -12v (or negative) pole that we are talking about. Even in a boat the -12v pole of the battery is connected to the boat's "ground" (aka zero volt reference). Basically, the sum of the voltage drops across each component of the circuit is equal to the supply voltage.
As for the +12/-12 volts, then yes, one would assume the -12 is ground while in a boat. However, if one is using just a battery, there is no ground so to speak. It is the +12v (or positive) pole and the -12v (or negative) pole that we are talking about. Even in a boat the -12v pole of the battery is connected to the boat's "ground" (aka zero volt reference). Basically, the sum of the voltage drops across each component of the circuit is equal to the supply voltage.