Maybe...and maybe not...
My wife and I started sailing 44 years ago and have owned seven sailboats, not including a couple of sailing dinghies. We've owned our present Hunter Legend 43 for so long that it's paid for. You've raised one of those interesting questions that I'm sure has been the subject over many hours of folks just yacking about yachts. To me, I think it's a question of what you are going to do with your vessel. If your idea of sailing is poking around local protected waters, I find multihulls fascinating...but not fascinating enough to own one...yet. If you plan on taking long ocean voyages, I vote for a monohull. We took a four-year cruise to Oz and back a few years ago...very carefully. Some of our passages included days of pretty exciting sailing, like putting three 200 mile days together going from Vanuatu to Australia. It was a rough ride, but we never worried about our safety. If we'd been out there with a multihull, I think I'd have been terrified. (I think that was what my wife felt when we left the dock in the US headed for a trip possibly around the world. I had wanted to get to Oz, but I thought that we'd just go west until it didn't look like fun any longer. When it didn't, we'd just come home, which we did.)Speed is really nice. Well, how much speed do you want? Glancing at our logs, I think that we averaged about 7.5 knots under way; not bad for a mom-and-pop cruiser. The trip from Mexico to the Marquesas Islands was about seven and a quarter; lots of light air. In a "cruiser's race" (where you use the engine if conditions were such that you would normally use one) from Fiji to Vanuatu we finished a couple of hours, I think) in front of a 36-ft trimaran; mostly brisk sailing. Multis aren't much faster than monos when you load them up. (We got a prize for being the first boat to sail across the finish line. 70-odd racers, I think.)To me, I'm not sure that they have really come up with a solution to tipping over a multi. Safety is number one to me. You must be able to survive almost anything that comes along. Handling a boat around a marina is another issue. Multis take a lot of maneuvering room amd seem to get blown around worse than monos.On the plus side, Puget Sound and the passages to Alaska are usually pretty docile. If you misjudge the weather, you can usually find a hurrican hole somewhere. I've hidden behind more than one island around here...Maybe...