Check the archives, but my 2 cents....
I think the real deal here is to deciede what you guys want to do and plan around that.If you are into bar hopping, then every major harbor has a number of places to see and be seen.If you are into peace and solitude, stay away from the major harbors as the bars can be pretty noisy and stay open late.So without any real idea of what you folks want to do while you are down there, here are a lot of the standard places to stop at:These are very well traveled stopping pointsManchioneel bay on cooper island, great burgers and larger pain killers.Foxy's on Jost Van Dyke, good lunch spot and a must visit place.The Bight, Pirates was a lot of fun as is the Willy T.Cane Garden Bay, go to Da wedding, it is at the far end of the bay, but well worth the visit, say hi to Puiee for us.Bitter End Yacht Club in gorda sound, great anchorage, the BEYC is okThe Baths, gotta do that one, get there early as the moorings fill up pretty quicklyIf you are going to the USVI, St. John is a great place to visit and a favorite beach day is trunk bay, there are other secluded beaches, but for some reason we keep coming back to this one.Leinster bay is a good overnight anchorage and a peaceful place to visit.Coral harbor is not the most beautiful of places, but the Skinny Legs restaurant is a fun lunch stop as are the small number of shops around it.Lameshur bay is a great overnight, the day/night we were there we were the only ones there and it was incredibly peaceful and quiet.If you go into St. John out of the BVI's you will need to clear customs, while you are in St. John, go shopping at Mongoose Junction, a very funky place to spend a few hours looking around, great little out door restaurant there also.Hope this helps, remember that you will be on vacation, so the 3 hour sail from cane garden bay to gorda sound may get scrubbed due to an over indulgence the night before and you will either spend another day in cane garden bay recouping, or a quick sail over to cooper island my be the ticket.Either way, keep it open ended and loose, if you are too fixated on a schedule, you will not have as good a time as you would otherwise.Keep in mind that you don't have to see it all the first time around, the BVI's aren't going anywhere soon and they will welcome you back with open arms.Regards.BruceNeon Moon