Dave,
I just got back from a three day cruise with Penny, out on Mount Hope Bay. I really can't think of anyone, including my wife, that I'd like to share my sailboat with. My wife got all cruised out back in the 1990s. She hates boating, period. The only time she'll sail with me is when I invite the grandchildren, otherwise she wants nothing to do with it. I rarely ever ask anyone to go sailing with me. I really love my solitude when it comes to getting out on my boat. I know that a lot of people may cringe at me for saying this, but if I had my choice, and I do, I always pick my dog for my First Mate. For one thing, I don't have a full blown insurance on my boat. I only have a $15 rider for liability that is covered under my Homeowners Insurance, to satisfy the yacht club requirements. Penny is great company on the boat. I keep her food on board and if she needs to use the head, I drop anchor and take her over to land in the kayak. She only weighs about 40 lbs, so she's great in a 9' kayak and can jump in and out of it from the sailboat. We had a blast together in one of my favorite coves. I dug a large bucket of Quahogs to bring home and I picked some cherry stones and cooked up a new recipe of "Clams Gazupo" on board. "Clams Gazupo" is like "Mussels Marinara", except that you use small quahogs or "Cherry Stones", instead of Mussels. I usually make my favorite recipe of "Narragansett Bay Style Clams Casino" but it was too hot to run my oven in the boat. Check out this site for three of my recipes:
http://www.saltysailors.com/ "Clams Casino, Narragansett Bay", "Portuguese Chourico & Peppers", and my "Florentine Garden Ring" recipe, complete with pictures. How did we get on to this subject?

Joe