I think you'd be ok
Most boats this size dont have floation foam anyway, (Catalina 22, 25) if you removed enough for a fuel tank, the boat would probably stay on the surface if holed. I wouldnt worry much about fuel leaks, (if done properly and with good materials) lots of power boats (and sail) have the fuel tanks in the bowand as for being the first thing to make contact in a collision, would that really be the biggest concern? I think you'd have bigger problems. (how fast are you sailing anyway?) The biggest factor with adding more weight to the bow to conteract more weight of a motor on the stern MIGHT be more see-saw action in the waves. Down low and center might be a better place for additional weight.