I co-owned a boat with a good friend, who also introduced me to sailing. He had sold his Catalina 30 “because he didn’t get enough use out if it, and he had 2 girls in college”. I said, well don’t talk to my wife about that....I am still working (and my friend was retired...so I would have even less time to sail), and I had 2 boys in college.
I bought a Hunter 280, and he bought a trimaran. A year later, he sold the trimaran and bought 1/2 of the Hunter. We later bought a 1988 O’Day 322 that I had seen a few years earlier, before I bought the Hunter.
Having a partner meant my wife couldn’t veto the purchase of a “second” boat....or I would probably still have the Hunter. but we made the purchase of the O’Day 322 and sold the Hunter a month later.
Over the time we co-owned the O’Day 322 (about 4 years), we split all of the expenses and discussed any major purchases (a canvas cover, a Mack Pack, a VHF radio).
A little while ago, my friend decided he was ready to retire from sailing. We had discussed the exit strategy should one of us want out of the partnership. The remaining partner could decide to buy out the other half of the boat (based on what we paid for it), or he decide to sell it, and both partners would split any proceeds from the sale.
In our case, I wanted to keep the boat, so I bought out his half. We are still friends, but don’t see each other quite as much. He is going to help me haul out next week though!
We never had much drama, at least as far as I was concerned. He did once plow into the dock ladder with the bow of the boat, but the anchor appeared to take the hit, and no damage done (except to the dock ladder).
Our kids dated, which is how I first met my friend. And when we started talking about the boat partnership, we said “what if the kids break up“? Well, unfortunately, they did break up, but we have all remained friends.
I would consider doping it again, but I feel fortunate to have had the partner I had. Not sure I could replicate that again. Certainly would NOT be partners with a stranger.
Greg