Joe,
I stand corrected. Crotch, crutch, tomatoes, toomatoes,---That sounds like a familiar song I used to know. :dance:
Jack,
You're absolutely right. You need something to keep the mast from going over sideways, but if you don't have a roller furler to throw everything off balance, and if you keep the wind coming from directly behind the stern, I know that he could get by without pivot bridles if he can stand next to the mast to guide it as he raises or lowers it. I use pivot bridles now because I have a CDI Roller Furler, and I'm able to raise/lower my mast by myself with the wind aft. It takes a little more time to set up, but it would be impossible for me to do with my furler. For years, I did it the way Roger described, and I did it by myself. It's the fastest and best way if you're careful and young enough to do it. It's only when you start adding things like a furler, that mast handling becomes hard to do. As I approach "Geezerdom", it becomes an even bigger task.

In the pics, I show one of my pivot bridles which connects to my lower stays. My friend Wayne uses a special mast crotch which he attaches for his pivot bridles. He uses a small boat winch and I use my boom vang with an extra long line. The other two things that I didn't mention that really makes the job go mast is; A Johnson Handy-Lock on my back stay, and a quick release button type fast pin on my furler. I never have to mess with any of my turnbuckles. All the stay tensioning is done with that Handy-Lock on the back stay.
Joe