Join a club and crew on other boats
I had sailed in camp when I was young and in college a couple of times 20 years ago. Last April, we got the urge to sail, bought a Starwind 223, a book on sailing, subscribed to SAIL, went on the internet, AND joined the Mark Twain Lake Sailing Association. The MTLSA members are great!We sailed almost every weekend. We sailed alone in light wind. When we didn't feel comfortable, someone was always eager to help us - sail with us or let us crew on their boat. Through the summer as our skill and experience increased, we sailed in more challenging conditions. By the end of the summer, we were sailing in 15-20 knot winds.Recognize, Mark Twain is an inland lake. The biggest waves we see are the 3 ft. wake from the 50 ft. house boat.Bottom line, read everything you can find, join a good friendly sailing association, know and stay within your limits, sail every weekend - on your boat or crew on another.Oh yea, we plan to spend a week in lessons this summer. We think this will be a good investment. For what it's worth from a new sailor.