Hello,
I would like to chime in since I have a few questions of my own.
I have a valve at the top of the tank. Will shutting that essentially perform the same function as an inline stop-cock you're describing?
I unfortunately installed the squeeze bulb near the tank, since I had to replace dried hose at the valve end. It is awkward to use and I can't see fuel leak at a bleed screw, so it may have caused problems by enthusiastic use (how firm is firm?).
I think a pressure gauge installed downstream of the fuel filter will indicate the differential pressure caused by the resistance of the fuel filter to fuel flow, since most gauges are referenced to atmospheric pressure by their construction. I would change my filter if it showed a 5 psi differential. I don't think I will do this since changing the filters happens annually on my boat, due to the amount of trust I have in the quality of marine diesel available.
I still need to install an access port on my tank for cleaning and a fuel level indicator. I have some ideas I want to consider before moving ahead.