I've bareboated in both places
and they both have their ups and downs. In the Abacos, I had a 38 ft Beneteau and in the BVI it was a 40 ft Island Packet. The IP was a great boat for open ocean passages, while the Beneteau was much better for upwind work. I felt more restricted in where I could sail in the Abacos than the BVI, but that also meant it was much less crowded. I went to both places in the off season, i.e., end of summer in order to avoid crowds and get better rates. But the tradeoff is that you are at the beginning of hurricane season (although we never had any problems with really bad weather -- other than the scary line squalls that come up quickly, blow hard, and are gone just as quickly = be sure you know how to quickly reef main and headsails on your charter boat). This was my first experience with furling mains and they worked well. Both boats were good choices for their locations, but it is important to make sure whatever boat you get has many opening ports, fans, and otherwise good ventilation as it can get hot in an anchorage. In sailing out of Road Town, we had the choice to provision the boat ourselves and while that added some time to do, it really saved some money. We had less choices in the Abacos and so had the charter company provision the boat and they did a great job. The sailing was grand in both locations as you can count on 10-20 kts from the Trades every day. I would go back to either place -- and may just do that. It may help to get a chart kit beforehand and program some waypoints into your own GPS before you leave home. Have fun, bring sun screen, and a wide brimmed hat.