Call me crazy....
I had the same problem with the old 'gate' valve on my H31 becoming corroded and, basically, unusable. I got a generic 'ball valve' at Loews and replaced replaced the old valve while the boat was hauled out for a bottom job. This valve was not'directional, so I didn't encounter your problem, per se, but... I agree with Paul that it shouldn't matter, especially since I DON'T USE that valve anymore. Assuming that you are referring to the sea-water intake for flushing the toilet, I have a couple of thoughts: First, if you're doing the job while the boat is in the water, and you're in Florida, well, it seems to me that you might want to pop over the side and plug the outside of the thru-hull somehow before you start the process. In San Francisco, I was reluctant to do this, as the water is around 50 something degrees year round.Second, and more importantly,I was tired of the funky smell in the head, which I attributed to the sea-water flush providing a virtual 'petri dish' enviornment for funky smell production in the holding tank. So,after replacing the valve, I decided to leave the valve closed and then converted to a fresh water flush, which has worked remarkably well for the last few years.Initially, I tapped off of the fresh water line to the sink, with a T fitting, a check valve and another ball valve, to provide water to flush the head. That worked great, but then I read a post from Peggy Hall on this subject which indicated that I might (would) eventually contaminate the fresh water system with this setup, and found out that someone had come up with a cool idea to route the sink drain into the line that provides water to flush the toilet. I contemplated that concept for a few minutes, and then I just started using the shower head to fill the bowl and flush the toilet at the end of the day, and I've been doing that for quite a while, until I eventually achieve the motivation to re-plumb the sink drain into the toilet.Basically, on my boat, that thru-hull valve is closed all of the time, and the hose from that valve to the toilet is capped off. Ready, of course, to be re-connected to the head if I decide to sail off into the sunset, and might face the prospect of a shortage of fresh water. Then, of course, I could route the discharge of the toilet overboard, and the sea-water in the holding tank would not be an issue. Anyway, my POINT (which has become completely lost, even to ME) is that you might be able to just bypass the thru-hull valve and convert to a fresh water flush if your lifestyle on the boat would lend itself to using fresh water. A Y-fitting in the sink drain might be the way to go, (check the archives) and then it shouldn't matter if, when, or HOW you install the ballcock, because you would leave it closed, unless you're gonna be offshore for a while and hurting for fresh water. I replaced my valve because it was giving me the heebie-jeebies, and I wasn't sure if it would just fail abruptly and connect the inside of the boat to the friggin' Ocean, if you know what I mean. So now I have a new valve, but I don't use it anymore. And the head smells a LOT better.Total gibberish, I know, but it's all I have to offer.Good luck - Rick