At 25kts you shouldn’t need a 3rd reef in the main, but you may need to get rid of a lot of that mast-head genoa. I looked all this over when I purchased the Oceanis 411, thought I may need a 3rd reef. What I found is - the second reef is so deep I don’t need anything more in winds up into the +40 kt range. At that point, I’m making for a port. If your B361 actually requires a 3rd reef I suggest you have your sailmaker attach the required reefing cheek blocks and plan on reeving your 1st reef to the third as the conditions require. That procedure is relatively simple. But back to heavy weather concerns - focus on what you are going to do with all that fore-sail. I use the ATN Gale Sail and find that it does a pretty good job of balancing the boat.
One other thing to consider is a new main built with heavier cruising cloth and more reinforcement. Neil Pryde can dial you in. Boat Show is Coming...and NP will be there.