@David in Sandusky pretty much got it all.
PROTIP: The big trick is to make the sheets as light as possible. Most cruisers use an asym in light airs, and on an asym the sail has to hold the weight of the attached lines aloft. This weight can really drag down the sail, ruining its shape so:
1) Use high quality, line, as thin as possible for conditions, best with water shedding covers (condura)
2) If using a core-dependent line, strip the last 10-15 feet of cover.
3) Think about using a pig tail to further lighten the line and ease gybing.
4) The biggie - NO SHACKLES. Bowline the sheet(s) to the clew
Best line to use? Flightline.
http://www.apsltd.com/new-england-ropes-flight-line.html
With stripped line a pigtail is easy. A 3 foot length of specta with an eye in one end. Splice an eye on both stripped ends of the sheets. The luggage tag the pigtail to both eyes. Tie the other end to the clew.
Others noted different sheets sets for different breeze. A great idea. On BlueJ we have three sets of spin sheets, from heavy air easy-on-the-hand sheets to light air thin stripped with soft shackles. A well equipped cruiser should ideally have two.