But seriously...
I suspect you actually would appreciate help, thus the question...A 146 is going to tender (tipsy) in a few situations: One, if you have too much sail up for wind conditions. Try reefing your main or flying a little less jib, or both until you have a feel for how she handles. Second, if you have your sheets trimmed in too tight for your chosen point of sail. Apparent wind can be confusing and you may think the true wind is further forward than it really is. Easy your jib sheets and trim in until the telltale is flying smoothly. Easy your boom to leeward and trim her back in until her telltales are flying smooth. I'm willing to bet that you have your sheets too tight. Another thought: Do you have your keel down? Back when I started sailing I left it up once or twice. Tipsy for sure.