Mark, why?
Why do you need to increase headstay tension?
I would presume one of 2 reasons:
1. The furler is too heavy for the stay and causes it to sag. Pulling down on the backstay will only increase mast rake, thus increasing weather helm, which, if you have a sagging headstay, you already have as it is. To remedy this, take up on the forestay instead. If you can't get access to adjust it, it's a fault of the furler design. No good furler precludes, or even inhibits, adjustment of the turnbuckle while the furler is installed. You may need to remove the sail and/or lift up the drum; but the answer 'I can't do that once it's installed' is unacceptable.
2. The furler/extrusion/headstay assembly was cut or fitted too long for the boat. This is amazingly common when less-than-knowledgeable sailors, such as guys in boatyards, fit furlers to production boats, especially when on advice from the owner and not from a rigger. To remedy this, have the furler removed, measured, and compared to the actual working (rigger's) sail plan of the boat.
I'm willing to bet that, of those with furlers and sagging headstays, about 90 percent fall into either the 'too long' or the 'too loose' category. Maybe the rest are something else. I'll think about it.
All this aside, if you have a B&R rig, it really does not benefit from a backstay adjuster. For one thing, a pure B&R rig doesn't even have a backstay; it's designed to stand stiffly without one. Adding a backstay, especially just so to have an adjuster on it, is redundant. One could as well add a plywood daggerboard to the keel.
Also, backstay adjusters start to lose efficiency as the boat gets bigger. We had one on our 9500-lb Raider 33; I don't see much point in one for boats much beyond that. They're mainly for lightweight boats with narrow, flexible spars that benefit from imposing mast bend like they do from shifting crew about the cockpit. Yes; I know there are hydraulic assists; but a hydraulic backstay is the best way I know to propel the mast into the deck or keel, shatter it at the shrouds, or to break its wire-rope fittings. If you can't make the needed improvements with a hand-operated block and tackle, your boat is probably too big to want or need one.
Back in the IOR 1970s stories were legion of people imposing so much added backstay tension that the boat, not the mast, was what bent. We called these 'banana boats'.
And, yes, Mark, the aft lowers will look loose when you bend the mast; that's to be expected. Remember that mast bend works best on close tacks; that's when the headstay needs to be tightest and the forward lowers are doing most of the work against mast pumping (wow and flutter at the spreader point) and the aft lowers aren't as needed for their usual job. Then the backstay adjuster needs to be slacked when going downwind-- which really means that it's just one more thing to constantly play in and out as you go. When you're racing and have 4 or 5 other guys in the cockpit, it's one thing. For 'performance cruising', especially with a cruising-oriented boat crewed mainly by family, I don't see the point.
The advice to consult a professional rigger is well warranted in most cases; definitely it is in this case. I am a professional rigger; so consider yourself as having consulted one. :dance: