Here's a couple of ideas
Not everyone will agree, but as I fall off the wind on my 361, I loosen the outhaul, keeping the shape of the main similar to the shape of the genoa. I keep the leech tight, either with the vang in lighter winds or with the mainsheet/traveler in heavier winds. It works very well out to about 80 degrees apparant. Neal Pride has a tuning guide for the RF main on their website that has further tips.