Thank you. I read the other pages but this discussion was very helpful as it had the Volvo recommendations. It would seem for what I have the Volvo recommendation is to leave it in neutral for less wear on the gears. Whereas other set ups it is best to put it in reverse.This site, the people talk about what position the gear should be in when sailing. Seems to be mixed.
http://www.ybw.com/forums/showthread.php?t=162093
Good luck