Thanks all. I feel pretty good about what I'll need moving forward, and am also consulting an acquaintance of mine on this install who is a marine electrician.
The only things for which I plan on using the shore power are the air conditioning, fridge and computer. Given that my 5200 btu mermaid A/C unit claims to only draw 4.4 amps, and assuming the computer draws 1 amp as a conservative estimate, I'm thinking I won't have a problem with the fridge, even if all 3 are going at the same time. If anyone disagrees feel free to say so.