HunterFan, If you sail in tight waters you will be tacking more than if the horizon is nothing but water. If you sail alone you will be working harder then if you have a crew. If this boat is new to you, then you need to do some cockpit time at the dock. You need to go through the motions that you will be experiencing. Pretend to tack the boat while you are standing behind the helm, in front of the helm, beside the helm. Before you know it you will develop your own routine.
My genoa sheets are positioned in front of the helm. With the big sail flying, it takes a practiced routine to tack the boat. Depending on the breeze, am I fully in control and the helm 100% of the time, no.

But i shift my tasks to the most important step. I set up the rig for the events. I go through the routine but I am not married to it. Sometimes I stop and change the routine based upon what is happening.
For example, it is blowing 13knots. I have the regular jib up not the 144 because the forecast is for strengthening breezes.

I am closing in on the time to tack, the rocks on the shore are approaching. I put the helm to lee and start to tack the jib, but an out of sync wave hits the stern changing the rudder angle, while the sheets are in my hands. I let go of one of the sheets, grab the helm set it back, then return to the sheets to get the tack completed. No fancy gear needed just practice and an awareness of the boat and the conditions. Am I perfect

of course not. But I complete the tack. Maybe earlier then I would have if I had a crew and I was racing trying to get all the distance out of a single tack, close to the rocks with no margin for error.
Sometimes stuff falls apart. Like the when I tried the autotack feature of the AP. Just when the tack was complete and and I was setting the trim on the new tack. The AP decides to tack the bow back to the previous heading.



. Quick release the backwinding jib. Get the boat moving. Turn off the F$x%%%% AP and try again.
It happens and as a solo sailer you deal with it.
To help with the labor, I installed an Autopilot and self tailing winches. The helm came with a break that I can tighten to mostly hold the rudder in place. There is always the option to tie the helm in place or bungee it with surgical tubing.
What really helps is just planning/practicing at the dock, Then getting out on the water and doing it. Not being afraid to stumble.