What we are experiencing throughout the U.S. in the decline of civility is a direct reaction to a disintegration of our culture. As the culture changes, so does each elemental aspect of the culture. As Americans made the transition from small towns, where everyone knew each other, to large cities, where anonymity was the norm, there was no penalty for rudeness to a stranger. If you are not a known member of a group, your transgressions will largely go unpunished. In many primordial tribes, crime, rudeness and selfishness do not exist since the group will not tolerate counterproductive behaviour. And, if a repeat offender is incorrigible,he is forever banned from the group. In modern urban society, unless the crimes are of a signficant nature, the violator goes unpunished. Why should we hold a door for a stranger who is not a member of our group? Why not cut in line if the opportunity exists? Why help a person in need if you're late for work or a social event? There is no penalty. However, the difference between Civilization and the Third World is that civilized countries maintain civility, compassion and the rule of law. In Third World countries it is the law of the jungle. So, when we encounter rudeness, selfishness and poor conduct, we are witnessing the decline of our culture into the throes of the Third World. Perhaps, it's too late to stop. Best, Ron
