wow..thanks for all the replies..let me rephrase my thoughts..since I started sailing on my canoe I knew that I was hooked for life..and I still feel the same way..I just think that I may have bought too much boat for my experience and finances and may be just as happy sailing something like a potter 19 or a mariner which I suspect would be alot simpler and cheaper in all respects... I just feel smaller may be cheaper and less stressful to maintain and operate.
It's a tough call. It's good that you're trying to be honest with yourself. It often helps to get out the ole pencil and paper and get all the facts out and in front of you:
- what your short and long-term sailing goals are?
- how much you just like to get out and sail, vs planning and executing a specific cruise every year? Do you have some specific cruising goals and a timetable? is a 25' boat required for these goals?
- how much time can you spend per year on sailing? on boat work?
- realistically, the amount of money you can comfortably spend per year on ALL the boat costs - maintenance, improvement, insurance, storage, mooring, etc etc
- did your first year meet your sailing expectations, or did the costs and anxiety of a larger boat ruin it for you?
It's no secret that smaller boats have smaller problems...
In our case we opted for a 19' trailerable micro cruiser as our first boat because we really liked the idea of being able to drag the boat to any lake (behind OUR Xterra

- btw the 4WD 6 cyl Xterra can tow over 5000 lb with a class 3 hitch ) and launch anywhere at a moment's notice. But we also liked the low risk of a beat-up inexpensive boat that can be sailed from the trailer, and since we've both taken a hit in the economic downturn, this proved wise; our boat is still affordable, including a drysailing membership at our yacht club.
We do aspire to a larger boat, but we've pretty much decided to keep the little boat forever, since it gives so much freedom and pleasure for so little cost.
You've probably committed the funds for this summer's sailing, so give your 25-footer a chance, sail her as often as possible and then do the cost/benefit analysis.
p.s. how do you use the porta potty in something like a mariner.?
As little as possible
Sometimes, if we're spending every night at a club/marina, and taking lunch stops at a public spot, we can get away with not using the head at all. But, awkward as it is, it's better having one than not.
I'm looking at possible ways to relocate the head so that it's easier to use, and doesn't require unmaking the bed when someone has to tinkle @ 3 AM
