I haven't read all the posts, so sorry if I repeat something, but one post did catch my eye when they said that a heavier, thicker mast can carry more sail. Partially it has something do to with righting moment [look it up]. I disagree as tests have shown that carbon rigs [lighter] on the same boat design with an aluminum rig [heavier], can carry more sail area into increasing wind velocities. The same, more negligible, would apply with heavier aluminum rigs. Also, some designs have increased wall thickness on fractional rigs that carry various sizes of spinnakers, especially hoisted from the normal fractional rig position and also from the top of the mast, to eliminate mast failure. So, for cruising, I don't think that an after market mast will make much difference as long as it is consistent with original designed sail plan, etc. There are many boats with masts from manufacturers that no longer exist and so an alternative manufacture is required to employ for mast replacement [LeFiell is one example]. Most cruising designs have telephone pole type masts that have so much safety measures built in the structure [unlike an America's Cup Boat], that absolute performance is a not a concern on most production boats.
To keep weight aloft on an America's Cup boat, they will use one halyard to raise the mainsail and then send someone up to the masthead to clip in the head of the main and the same halyard will be used for the spinnaker, for example. You can imagine how heave the halyard for a boat with a 150' or whatever mast height is. So, one halyard is lighter than two. Performance cruisers, like J/Boats, for example, are the exception to the rule when it comes to production boats that sail fast regardless of the size or design.
That's my two cents.