When was your tank last certified. No one will refill, even if you can find a place that does refills, if your tank is out of certification. It is required every 5 years and the certification date will be stamped on the tank. There may be more than one on the tank if it has been recertified before.
I refill my own at a local ENMARK station that is set up for filling big trucks. They just put in the CNG filling about a year ago to support big trucks that service the shipping port near Savannah. However, I expect at any time they will say I can't if they look out and see my minivan parked at the pump and me using some sort of "contraption" to reduce the pressure from the 3400 psig of their pumps to my 2000 psig of my tank.
You might check online with some companies like ENMARK or others that have done the same for the Baltimore shipping port. As I recall, there may be a place to fill near BWI but I am not at all sure who can use it and how to access/pay for it. I also seem to recall a post from a member on this forum who was doing some sort of fill/tank exchange in the Maryland area. It was a private individual, not a company. Did you try Bert Jabin's boatyard? However, I think they dropped the exchange service some time back but it is worth talking to them to see if they have a contact.