I described the best solution for that problem in post #4 (also in my book):
Sink drain thru-hulls are below the waterline on almost all sailboats. Close the intake thru-hull and remove the intake line. Re-route it to tee or wye it into the head sink drain line as close to the seacock as possible because the connection must be below waterline to work.
This will allow you to flush normally with sea water. After you’ve closed the sink drain seacock in preparation to close up the boat (you do close all seacocks before leaving the boat to sit??), fill the sink with clean fresh water and flush the toilet. Because the seacock is closed, the toilet will draw the water out of the sink, rinsing the sea water out of the entire system—intake line, pump, channel in the rim of the bowl and the discharge line,(Water poured into the bowl only rinses out the toilet discharge line). Or you can keep the sink drain seacock closed except when it's needed to drain the sink and flush with fresh water down the sink all the time...your choice.
You haven't mentioned the other end of the sanitation system yet--the holding tank. Managing it requires a bit of a learning curve too.
--Peggie
I haven't actually sailed this boat yet, just refurbishing it. I like this solution. The sink drain is below the waterline-about eight inches or so up the hull from the dedicated sea water inlet for the toilet. So, when the boat is heeled over on that side, there is no chance water will come up into the sink?
Since I am on an inland lake, in Kansas, there is no option for overboard discharge. Therefore, I took out the "Y" valve (and capped the overboard discharge thru hull) and replaced it with a vented loop. I replaced all the sewer hose. The toilet pumps up to the loop, then down the other side and another 15 feet or so to the holding tank-which on this boat is in the starboard cockpit locker, a couple of feet from the transom. Ironically it is on the same side as the toilet and only about six feet away as the crow flies. As I understand it, seven pumps per meter of sewer hose, so 35-40 pumps to get to the holding tank, or use all that hose as extra capacity.

Choose a product for digestion of biomass and odor control, pretty much like my RV. The holding tank is vented for pump out.
Thank you for your time.
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