Don't sell your boat to a neighbor.

Nov 24, 2015
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Hunter 27 Middle River
I sold my first keelboat, to a couple that moved not only into my marina - but further out on the same pier. I bought the vessel for $5K a year or two earlier, did a bunch of work, and sold it to them for under $3K (I had another boat and wanted out of double slip leases.). Like myself, it was their first boat and I don't think they knew much about maintenance. I felt good initially, selling the family a solid, safe cruiser at a very decent price.
But over the next couple seasons most times when they would stroll past me on their way out the pier to their boat they would give me at minimum a dirty look, sometimes an "under the breath" comment, or even a verbal exchange about how I screwed them over because of whatever had recently gone wrong on the boat.
The first spring that I saw the boat after selling it was in it's berth, some seaweed hanging limp on the dock lines, and the cockpit full of green water a foot deep. What a sad sight. I assume that as it sat uncovered over the winter debris and leaves had collected in the cockpit and clogged the scuppers to the point of non-functionality. I guess come springtime the marina just dropped it back in the water as they found it, assuming the owners would visit and at least check things out but it seems they either lost interest, got busy, or something else.
I still see it tied up in it's slip when I motor in and out of the marina, but haven't seen the owners in a couple years. Boats do require some time and money for upkeep, and maybe they just ran short of one or both. Had they approached me differently I most likely would have been happy to help them with their issues if I had the time available. I can understand their frustration, and maybe their expectations about what a boat requires wasn't reasonable. Anyhow, best wishes to them.
Takeaway lesson: don't sell a boat to someone who is or may end up a future neighbor.
 
May 12, 2004
1,505
Hunter Cherubini 30 New Port Richey
I felt good initially, selling the family a solid, safe cruiser at a very decent price.
But over the next couple seasons most times when they would stroll past me on their way out the pier to their boat they would give me at minimum a dirty look, sometimes an "under the breath" comment, or even a verbal exchange about how I screwed them over because of whatever had recently gone wrong on the boat.
Oscar Wilde (1854-1900): "No good deed shall go unpunished". :wahwah:
 

DArcy

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Feb 11, 2017
1,769
Islander Freeport 36 Ottawa
My previous boat is still in the same harbor. I sold it to a guy that had sailed when he was younger and wanted to get back into sailing. I helped him get it launched and rigged the first spring. He has asked me a few questions since then but always very friendly about it. He even bought me beer for helping him out. He has been using the boat quite a bit and I'm glad to see it but I think he may have underestimated the maintenance on an old boat.

I doubt anyone without experience keeping up an old boat could conceive the amount of effort required.
 
Oct 19, 2017
7,976
O'Day Mariner 19 Littleton, NH
The first spring that I saw the boat after selling it was in it's berth, some seaweed hanging limp on the dock lines, and the cockpit full of green water a foot deep. What a sad sight. I assume that as it sat uncovered over the winter debris and leaves had collected in the cockpit and clogged the scuppers to the point of non-functionality. I guess come springtime the marina just dropped it back in the water as they found it, assuming the owners would visit and at least check things out but it seems they either lost interest, got busy, or something else.
I still see it tied up in it's slip when I motor in and out of the marina, but haven't seen the owners in a couple years.
Very sad, like me looking at my boat in my driveway. The guy who owns it now hasn't done much with it at all in for years. :(

-Will
 

danm1

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Oct 5, 2013
204
Hunter 356 Mamaroneck, NY
Happened to kayak past a boat I sold thirty years ago. Delighted to see it at a mooring and obviously still sailing. Horrified to see the crappy caulking I did on the cabin ports still holding up and not redone...some people!
 
Jan 7, 2011
5,592
Oday 322 East Chicago, IN
I sold a boat to a guy, who emailed or called me all of the time to ask about this or that…not too big of a deal, but he did have some strange questions. I helped him move the boat 30 miles to his marina and he gave me a ride back…that was the last time I saw him.

But, I sold a van to my disabled neighbor (against my better judgement, but he really wanted it). After he realized he could not safely get his wheel chair up into the back of a Chevy Astro van, he sold it to another neighbor, who was in a band and wanted it to take his drums to a gig. That was in 2008 or 2009 I think.

That old Chevy Astro Van is still sitting in the neighbors driveway, with my kids age group swimming decals on the window. Paint has faded off the roof, and the drummer neighbor is pretty disabled himself now…and never drives it.

The first neighbor to buy my van has sold 2 vehicles to other neighbors…a.Volvo s40 and a nice Mercedes coupe he inherited when his mom died…the Benz is still tooling around the neighborhood. Not sure about the old Volvo.

We are a strange group of neighbors :cool:

As far as I know, one of those sales has resulted in hard feelings.

I hope they sell the boat or move on.

Greg
 

jviss

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Feb 5, 2004
7,089
Tartan 3800 20 Westport, MA
Good advice. I did a similar thing, and was "customer support" for the new owner, who wasn't research oriented. In future, I don't want to know the new owner, nor they me.
 

DArcy

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Feb 11, 2017
1,769
Islander Freeport 36 Ottawa
On the other side, I messaged the PO of my boat a couple times after I first got the boat and he was very helpful. He has also reached out to me a couple of times since then with spare parts he found at home and offered them up to me for free. I had a good chat with him when I went to his place last summer to pick up some teak boards he had left over, great guy.
 

jviss

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Feb 5, 2004
7,089
Tartan 3800 20 Westport, MA
On the other side, I messaged the PO of my boat a couple times after I first got the boat and he was very helpful. He has also reached out to me a couple of times since then with spare parts he found at home and offered them up to me for free. I had a good chat with him when I went to his place last summer to pick up some teak boards he had left over, great guy.
You are lucky! The OP of my first big boat reached out to me after I bought it to try to sell me equipment he had removed from it, which I thought should have gone with the sale. :(
 
Mar 20, 2015
3,236
C&C 30 Mk1 Winnipeg
Hard to avoid in some cases. It is a small tight knit sailing community here and many boats have had multiple owners while staying in the same marina.
 
Jan 18, 2016
782
Catalina 387 Dana Point
Everybody needs three rules/laws (Newton, Asimov, Clarke, etc...) I have my set:

1. Don't sell a used car to anybody you know.
2. Don't buy cheap toilet paper.
3. Free food is free food.

#1 applies here.