This is the setup I have now:
I'm stern-in with the finger-dock on the port side and a neighbor off my starboard side.
I have 2x 5/8" bow lines to the finger. one has a blue Shockles snubber in it, the other has a little more slack (enough that if the snubber is fully extended the second is about taut) .
I have 2x 5/8" lines about 15' long port-side tied to the toe-rail with 'firehose' style friction sleeves on them since the toe rail looks perfect for chafing its way through nylon. These lines aren't uniformly placed. One is a bit longer, and both go to separate cleats on the finger. One has a black Shockles snubber on it.
I have 1x 5/8" line starboard-side tied to toe-rail about 20' long.
I have 1x 5/8" line about 8' long with a blue Shockles snubber in it from my stern port side across the finger to the main dock, and a spare 3/8" line backing it up mostly for moral support.
I have 1x 5/8" line about 8' long with a black Shockles snubber in it from my stern starboard side to the main dock.
I have 1x 5/8" line about 6' long with a rubber snubber in it from stern starboard side to the main dock. ( doubt I could remove that snubber without a saw at this point)
I have 1x 5/8" line about 12' long from my stern starboard side across the transom to the main dock on the port side.
I have 1x 5/8" line that the marina staff tied on which connects by bow cleats to the two neighboring boats (all the boats are tied together)
I mention the color of the snubbers because it seems the black ones are much stiffer than blue (tho' I didn't see any indicator of strength on the packaging)
Writing it out, it seems like a lot. But it was in reaction to the first 40+mph winds I experienced as a liveaboard in October. Every gust felt like it was about to rip off my cleats. And my stern rubbed against the main dock damaging the gel coat on the edge of the transom. So I doubled up everything I could, and added as many snubbers as I could afford. The second 40+mph winds evening was less stressful, but it still sounded like every line through the toe rail was in danger of being chaffed-through (I am impressed with my boat's internal acoustics as far as line creaking is concerned).
The 3rd night in two months where we had 40+ gusts I nearly slept through it. But my brain woke me up every time I heard those toe-line tie-offs creaking at 95 decibels. At least that time I didn't feel the need to go outside in the cold and check on them every half hour. But I think to truly sleep through the next 40+, I need to silence those lines by giving them a better connection to the rail. I did find I have 1 snap-clip in previous-owner's Bag of Metal Mysteries™ that I rummaged through. Tho' I don't know it's rating. (I also don't know if the snap-clip will make a racket when the wind picks up)
The marina is fairly protected overall, but I'm out in a less protected slip. A few of the other residents have raised eyebrows when I say what slip I'm in for the winter. But my next-slip neighbor said 'it's not as bad as everyone says'.
I really just want to know my boat is secure and my lines won't be severed while I'm asleep.
Also, looking back, I wish I had just bought a spool of 5/8" line and started making my own dock lines with braided eye splices. Would have saved a good deal of money.